







When the world says, "Give up," Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."









Can I come with him tomorrow?'An older, tired-looking dog wandered into my yard.
I could tell from his collar and well-fed belly that he had a home and was well taken care of.
He calmly came over to me, I gave him a few pats on his head;
he then followed me into my house, slowly walked down the
hall, curled up in the corner and fell asleep.
An hour later, he went to the door, and I let him out.
The next day he was back, greeted me in my yard, walked inside and resumed his spot in the hall and again slept for about an hour.This continued off and on for several weeks.
Curious I pinned a note to his collar: 'I would like to find out who the owner of this wonderful sweet dog is and ask if they were aware that almost every afternoon your dog comes to my house for a nap.'
The next day he arrived for his nap, with a different note pinned to his collar: 'He lives in a home with 6 children, 2 under the age of 3 - he's trying to catch up on his sleep.


Never take your own revenge, beloved, but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written, "Vengeance is mine, I will repay," says the Lord.
Romans 12:19
This classified ad actually appeared in a San Francisco area newspaper:
For sale: 1984 Mercedes, 240 SL. Loaded. First $50 takes it. 868-5737.
Not believing his eyes, a man called the number to see if the "$50" was a misprint. A woman assured him it wasn't. So the man rushed to her home and gave her $50 in cash. As she handed him the title to the luxurious automobile he asked the obvious question:
"Why are you selling a Mercedes for $50?"
"Well," she explained, "my husband just phoned me from Las Vegas. He's there with his secretary, and he said he's leaving me. He went broke gambling, and he asked me to sell the Mercedes and send him half of what I get for it."
This woman got what she thought was "sweet revenge." Unfortunately, it's a pattern of behavior that often creeps into families that aren't breaking up, as well as those struck by the tragedy of divorce. We justify getting back at people when they take advantage of us. Accounts need to be "evened up."
Why does the Bible challenge such thinking and behavior? Why are we to leave vengeance to God?
Because He, not us, is the source of right and wrong. When your mate hurts you, it ultimately wounds God more than you.
Furthermore, God is the One who can dispense forgiving grace to you when you hurt your mate.
To take on the right of getting back at others is basically a sign of pride. The apostle Paul's counsel, "Bless those who persecute you"
(Rom. 12:14) is followed closely by the command,
"Do not be proud" (v. 16, NIV). We dare not clutch for ourselves that which belongs to God.
Punishment belongs to Him.
Marriages work better when we leave such lofty matters to GOD.






