tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044006622694678278.post5410886240196235434..comments2023-08-05T23:38:38.279+08:00Comments on E L E A N O R: Can a woman and man have JUST a platonic relationship?Daphne Ikinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07454053469920753980noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044006622694678278.post-60898454806955473512006-10-11T09:09:00.000+08:002006-10-11T09:09:00.000+08:00YES,it's possible and NO,it's not.i will take a pa...YES,it's possible and NO,it's not.i will take a pass on this.it's such a complex issue and will be futile to address it.........anyway u did not bet with your LIFE.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044006622694678278.post-4880711547523076462006-10-11T09:45:00.000+08:002006-10-11T09:45:00.000+08:00No, its not possible for you, after marriage to ha...No, its not possible for you, after marriage to have a best buddy from the opposite sex. It is okay from the same sex.<br>I think even if your spouse (man/woman) says he/she is okay about it but inside its 90% certain its "NO! NO!". <br>Your best pal should be your spouse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044006622694678278.post-21368929461570663382006-10-11T11:11:00.000+08:002006-10-11T11:11:00.000+08:00ever come across a billionaire jetsetting with a v...ever come across a billionaire jetsetting with a vivacious intelligent lady but physically overweight,unkempt hair ,face bursting with acne and has dressing taste that only an Amish will be proud of?????[i don't mean to look down all you guys,my dear Amish friends ,on the contrary my deepest respect]what happen to all those comments of yours bout doing a host of stuff together with your spouse.i thought that meant bestpal,right????Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044006622694678278.post-85836353221555204352006-10-11T11:13:00.000+08:002006-10-11T11:13:00.000+08:00Hmm, yes a complex issue I agree. anyhow, since I ...Hmm, yes a complex issue I agree. anyhow, since I *am* the girl of your best friend ;p I can vouch that such a thing is possible... *but* it requires the right blend of trust, respect and understanding to succeed: <br><br>1st: an understanding, sensitive and thoughtful man is the only man who can manage this kind of situation. the guy plays a very important role in setting the record straight and being upfront with his girl from the beginning <br><br>2nd: it helps if his girl and his best girl friend are introduced and given the opportunity to 'size each other up' <br><br>3rd: both girls have to be upfront and honest with each other at all times. it helps if they like each other enough to also become friends! <br><br>4th: his girl must also be understanding enough to accept the friendships he has outside their relationship <br><br>5th: trust, honesty and do unto others as you would wish done unto you!<br><br>that all said, im glad that you have found a best buddy in naz and that i have been included in your friendship. because not only do i now have the love of a wonderful man, I have also the company of his beautiful best girl friend whom I have come to love dearly!<br><br>*hugs*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044006622694678278.post-22589644305784336442006-10-11T12:28:00.000+08:002006-10-11T12:28:00.000+08:00In one of my communications class, I had to write ...In one of my communications class, I had to write a paper about the same topic, could men and women be friends without any romantic relationship. We had to watch the movie "When Harry Met Sally" and base it on their interpersonal relationship. Anyway, if you haven't watched the movie, they two fall in love with each other anyway.<br><br>Not to be rude, I also don't find you attractive hahaha. You sexy but you just don't do it for me because like Naz, I know you. Anyway, I don't find anyone from work attractive in a romantic way. They can be physically attractive, but I have a mental block that says no to anything else.<br><br>Menang hebat lah Ryan, I salute you for being able to marry this woman!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044006622694678278.post-4346118867678712802006-10-11T12:36:00.000+08:002006-10-11T12:36:00.000+08:00If you think you can, then you can la.. but ironic...If you think you can, then you can la.. but ironically the same can't be said about the other half though.. <br><br>Then there's also the question of how well you know your best pal's (true) feelings? up front he/she may seem uninterested but deep inside.. only God knows..<br><br>so, I'd have to say NO here.. :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044006622694678278.post-27120682968018964262006-10-11T14:25:00.000+08:002006-10-11T14:25:00.000+08:00i beg to differ,Sheahnee,it's like i have a best f...i beg to differ,Sheahnee,it's like i have a best friend[but sexually unappealing with the saliva and all] and i'm marrying into.....i dare not say it out.what u have describe is utopia,do u sincerely believe that it will be the same throughout knowing the utter unreliability of the MIND.yeah the MIND plays tricks.look at your life for such examples.<br><br>i'm not saying it's true but in 'Harry met Sally' the main theme is 'sex gets in the way'<br><br>i have no experience with regard to marriage but common sense tells me that my spouse should me my best friend to confide and share the deepest secrets<br>but anyway my ideal may not be yours and who dictates what is ideal right?<br><br>i'm not attacking the sanctity of marriage here, but in my 30 over years i have heard enough of reasons<br>1]nearing 30,beyond that gotta sell cheap<br>2]financial security<br>3]emotional security<br>4]wanna play catch with my boy before i reach 60<br>5]production house<br>6]kill time,yeah i say it, KILL TIME<br>7]we have been together for some time,it's the only logical move<br><br>etcAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044006622694678278.post-71709991441423964332006-10-11T14:43:00.000+08:002006-10-11T14:43:00.000+08:00yeah woman and man can have platonic relationship,...yeah woman and man can have platonic relationship,but we have diverge to the issue of bestpal not being the other halfAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044006622694678278.post-16229373056184792682006-10-11T15:15:00.000+08:002006-10-11T15:15:00.000+08:00neh.wont let that happen.not so much about trust,b...neh.<br>wont let that happen.<br>not so much about trust,but more to jealousy.<br>cant imagine my partner lending his shoulder for another woman to cry on. <br>nyeh nyeh neh!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com